Hormati tatanan ilahi
Prinsip 31 dari Enchiridion
Utamakan karakter di atas hasil yang tidak bisa dikendalikan. Tempat kita menaruh ukuran baik dan buruk memengaruhi respons saat keadaan tidak sesuai harapan.
Teks Asli
Be assured that the essential property of piety towards the gods is to form right opinions concerning them, as existing and as governing the universe with goodness and justice. And fix yourself in this resolution, to obey them, and yield to them, and willingly follow them in all events, as produced by the most perfect understanding. For thus you will never find fault with the gods, nor accuse them as neglecting you. And it is not possible for this to be effected any other way than by withdrawing yourself from things not in our own control, and placing good or evil in those only which are. For if you suppose any of the things not in our own control to be either good or evil, when you are disappointed of what you wish, or incur what you would avoid, you must necessarily find fault with and blame the authors. For every animal is naturally formed to fly and abhor things that appear hurtful, and the causes of them; and to pursue and admire those which appear beneficial, and the causes of them. It is impossible, then, that one who supposes himself to be hurt should be happy about the person who, he thinks, hurts him, just as it is impossible to be happy about the hurt itself. Hence, also, a father is reviled by a son, when he does not impart to him the things which he takes to be good; and the supposing empire to be a good made Polynices and Eteocles mutually enemies. On this account the husbandman, the sailor, the merchant, on this account those who lose wives and children, revile the gods. For where interest is, there too is piety placed. So that, whoever is careful to regulate his desires and aversions as he ought, is, by the very same means, careful of piety likewise. But it is also incumbent on everyone to offer libations and sacrifices and first fruits, conformably to the customs of his country, with purity, and not in a slovenly manner, nor negligently, nor sparingly, nor beyond his ability.
Penafsiran Modern
Salah satu contohnya begini. Epictetus menghubungkan kesalehan dengan penilaian yang benar. Ketika kita menaruh nilai baik dan buruk utama pada hal-hal di luar kendali kita, kita mudah marah pada nasib, hidup, atau Tuhan.
Epictetus menaruh ukuran baik dan buruk terutama pada niat, pilihan, dan karakter. Dengan begitu, kekecewaan tidak otomatis berubah menjadi kepahitan terhadap hidup atau semesta.
Kesalehan juga perlu terlihat dalam praktik luar yang dilakukan dengan tulus dan proporsional, bukan sebagai pertunjukan. Yang ada di dalam diri dan yang tampak dalam tindakan sebaiknya tidak saling bertentangan.
Bagi pembaca yang tidak religius sekalipun, pesannya masih bisa dipahami: tempat kita menaruh nilai akan memengaruhi cara kita menghadapi kejadian.
Contoh Praktik
Salah satu contohnya begini. Setelah kegagalan besar, kamu merasa hidup memperlakukanmu tidak adil. Berhenti sejenak dan tanyakan, "Di mana aku menaruh penilaian tentang baik dan buruk?"
Kamu kembali pada hal yang masih menjadi milikmu: bersikap jujur, berani, dan bertindak benar pada saat ini.
Pertanyaan Refleksi
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